If you want to pick up women but don’t know where to start, you’re in luck! It seems that a lot of men are able to do this without effort, but this is not the case. These men simply know what they are doing – and you can too. You simply need to gain some knowledge about what women are looking for when men approach them and you need to learn a few skills for dealing with women that will ensure you can get exactly what you want from them!
The first thing to think about is your appearance. Upon meeting a man, women will first of all notice how he looks. You want to be presentable and fashionable but you want to stand out from the crowd too. If you’re not too sure what types of clothes are in fashion, you may want to look through a few men’s magazines. Try to design a look that reflects your personality. Women love being able to see a man’s personality in how he dresses!
Additionally, you should think about how in shape you are. If you are overweight, you should try exercising and dieting to lose a few pounds, and if you are a little on the thin side, eat more and work out to gain weight and tone your muscles. Women are attracted to men more in the middle of the spectrum, so this is where you should aim to be.
Once you’ve considered your appearance, it’s time to think about how you will pick up women. The best place for doing this is often a place where people gather socially, or a place where people go specifically for hook-ups or to meet new people/ Bars, clubs and pubs are ideal, and are especially great for starting off and practising your techniques.
It will undoubtedly be a little uncomfortable at first to approach women and start talking to them, but you should always remember to be determined and that a few rejections doesn’t matter, because practice makes perfect, and at least you are taking action rather than sitting at home and wondering ‘what if’.
Importantly, you should never show that you are nervous. You might want to try psyching yourself up beforehand, to get yourself into a mindset where you won’t feel anxious. Do not focus on the possible outcome of rejection. Be positive and optimistic and any nervousness will substantially diminish.
When you are talking, you should avoid jumping in at the deep end and letting the women know you are interested in her. Be subtle and even a little coy. Be friendly and don’t treat her any different from how you would treat a friend. Even think of it as the same as talking to a friend. Don’t use chat up lines! These never work and at best women will laugh at you (at, not with!).
You will be able to pick up women without too much trauma provided you follow these steps. Attractive, confidant and interesting men are what women like – the secret to success is simply showing off these traits.
